Personally, from the child abuse survivors I've met who have at least a modicum of integrity, they go out of their way above and beyond to redeem themselves from the parents and abusers they were helpless against during childhood. Once a narcissistic doesn't mean always a narcissist. Only an uncured narcissist would claim abused children are hopeless and unable to heal or redeem themselves as adults.
If Jews and other child genital mutilators would quit all their forced circumcisions of male infants and boys then maybe those abused children wouldn't waste their lives clutching their maimed and mutilated genitals and thereby refraining from centering their lives on sex? Maybe that has something to do with narcissism Sam Vaknin of Israeli Jewish origins? You think?